New FREE online course - Words Matter: How to Communicate with Children so they Thrive

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New FREE online course

Words Matter: How to Communicate with Children so they Thrive

We’ve created our first free online course, for parents and carers, teachers, and any adults around children, designed to help build children up, not knock them down. Available on FutureLearn.com – just search ‘Words Matter’. 

Course overview
Words shape children’s lives more than we realise. 2 in 5 children experience verbal abuse by adults in their lives, affecting their confidence, self-esteem, mental health, and development.

Across three weeks, you’ll find out the science of child development and language, recognise verbal abuse in daily life, and gain practical techniques for home, school, and in a variety of interactions with children.

Discover the real power of your words
You’ll gain insights into the latest research and simple neuroscience with leading experts to understand why the way we communicate with and around children – and the words we use – matter.
 
Through guided activities, you’ll practise responding constructively in challenging moments and explore approaches that protect children’s mental health and wellbeing while supporting positive relationships.  With this foundation, you’ll recognise how everyday comments can either support or undermine a child’s confidence and wellbeing.  
 
Transform your communication to help children flourish
You’ll leave feeling more capable, equipped and ready to create nurturing environments where children feel safe, valued and able to reach their potential – and relationships can grow stronger and happier. 
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Professor Peter Fonagy, Head of the Division of Psychology & Language Sciences, UCL, and Government Advisor says: 

“The way adults speak to children can shape their mental health and development for life. This remarkable course shows why words matter, and gives practical, evidence-informed ways to replace harm with guidance – using calm, positive, and encouraging language that builds confidence, resilience, and healthier relationships. Even small changes in everyday communication can shift a child’s trajectory, and the benefits can echo across generations.” 

 

Course participants comments: 

“This course is not only giving me the resources to become a better person, teacher, and mother; it is also allowing me to heal, forgive, grow, and better understand myself. Thank you!” 

 

“I didn’t expect how much I would love this course! So much information and real advice that can be used straight away! I am really grateful!”

 

“I learned so many things from this course – how to connect with your kids, how you can deliver good things. I have no words to explain. This was sooo amazing, I love this course.”