New FREE online course - Words Matter: How to Communicate with Children so t​hey Thrive

Our vision is a world where all children can thrive and reach their full potential, free from verbal abuse.

Who we are

Words Matter is a charity on a mission to improve children’s mental and physical health by ending verbal abuse by adults.  

Our early relationships and experiences lay the foundations of how our brain and body get built, and shape who we become. Whether at home or at school, being surrounded by warm and loving words lays the foundations for children to grow and thrive. 

Verbal abuse breaks down those foundations. It has serious, lasting effects – it can damage a child’s sense of self, their future relationships and their ability to function at home, in school, work and social situations.  

It’s often hidden behind closed doors, like other forms of abuse. It’s time we brought it out into the open so that its impact on children can be understood and given the attention it needs.  

How we can help

As parents, carers and people who work with children, we all get overloaded sometimes. And at times like this we need support so we can continue to have good relationships with the children in our lives. By working together to improve childhood, we all  benefit – now and for years to come. 

Working in partnership with experts, decision makers, non-profit and other organisations, Words Matter focuses on three areas: 

Research

Research

Everything we do is rooted in research, because we can design stronger solutions if we understand the problem better.   

This includes new research, analysing existing evidence and identifying new ways of understanding the scale and impact.

Awareness

Awareness

We want verbal abuse of children to be taken seriously and raise its profile as an urgent issue for action.  

We raise awareness by sharing free educational resources, and through events and media campaigns. 

Collaboration

Collaboration

We collaborate with experts, organisations, decision makers and people with lived experience, because working in partnership is the best way to help identify, develop and scale interventions that make a difference. 

More support lightens the load for everyone.
 

Our values

Rigorous

we root our activity in evidence-based research

Pioneering

we innovate with new ideas and solutions

Inclusive

we are here for parents, carers and all people who work with children, from every walk of life

Principled

we always strive to do the right thing in everything we undertake

Kind

we are thoughtful and helpful in our interactions with others

Passionate

we care deeply about what we do and are committed to making a difference

Bold

we are courageous and fearless in our efforts to drive positive change
Dr. Alice Graham

Everyday exchanges that children participate in and witness between others shape their developing brains. As a researcher, clinician and parent, I see how children form narratives about themselves and the world based on how they are spoken to and spoken about. There is a great opportunity to support the development of healthy brains and positive narratives by creating a culture which values how we communicate with and around our babies and children. Simply put, words matter.